1Why it cannot share your sump
Code does not allow sewage and subsoil drainage in the same pit, so a below grade bathroom means a second pit next to the one you have. If a bid shows you a bathroom and no ejector pit, that is not a cheaper bid, it is an incomplete one.
Put the bathroom near the existing stack and the ejector run stays short. Put a bar or a laundry next to it and they can often share the same pit.
